Islam recognizes the existence of a love that is in humans. When someone have a sense of love, then it is the gift of the Almighty. Including the love of a woman (opposite sex) and others.
`Be beautiful in the human love of what is desired, namely: women, children, property that many of the types of gold, silver, horses, cattle and rice fields. That the pleasures of life in the world, and Allah is a good place again. `(Surah Ali Imran: 14).
Specifically to women, Islam recommends to realize that love with good treatment, wise, honest, friendly and most important of all is full of responsibility. So that if someone loves a woman, it is his duty to treat it with the best possible way.
Rasulullah SAW said, `The best among you are those who best of his partner (his wife). And I was the best man for my wife `.
But the concept of Islam, love of another kind is justified only when the bond between them is obvious. Before the bond, then in essence not a love, but only lust and attraction for a moment.
For the love of Islam is a responsibility that can not be simply spoken or drawn on paper a mere love letter. Or grandiose promises via SMS, chat and the like. But true love should be the shape of the pledge and statement of responsibility is witnessed by many people.
Even more `cool` it, saying the promise was not addressed to the couple, but to the woman's biological father. So a man who would be responsible and make the bonds pledged to make the woman as someone who became his life companion, sufficient whole life and needs to be `protective` and `tauladan`. Even the `take over` leadership from his father's shoulder on his shoulder.
`Be beautiful in the human love of what is desired, namely: women, children, property that many of the types of gold, silver, horses, cattle and rice fields. That the pleasures of life in the world, and Allah is a good place again. `(Surah Ali Imran: 14).
Specifically to women, Islam recommends to realize that love with good treatment, wise, honest, friendly and most important of all is full of responsibility. So that if someone loves a woman, it is his duty to treat it with the best possible way.
Rasulullah SAW said, `The best among you are those who best of his partner (his wife). And I was the best man for my wife `.
But the concept of Islam, love of another kind is justified only when the bond between them is obvious. Before the bond, then in essence not a love, but only lust and attraction for a moment.
For the love of Islam is a responsibility that can not be simply spoken or drawn on paper a mere love letter. Or grandiose promises via SMS, chat and the like. But true love should be the shape of the pledge and statement of responsibility is witnessed by many people.
Even more `cool` it, saying the promise was not addressed to the couple, but to the woman's biological father. So a man who would be responsible and make the bonds pledged to make the woman as someone who became his life companion, sufficient whole life and needs to be `protective` and `tauladan`. Even the `take over` leadership from his father's shoulder on his shoulder.
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